SOMETHING EXTRA...FROM ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE

Hello blue bloods...I know it's been two weeks already and no word from me, I apologise. Just like everyone out there has, is doing and will do, I have moved on to another phase in life...quite eventful I might add. My post is a bit early today but I've missed out on the aristocratic fun and wouldn't want to let this POSH Saturday slip by. I hope your week wasn't as daunting, anyway what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

You know a fortnight ago I shared my thoughts with you on SOMETHING EXTRA and remember on SPICING IT UP, I said there would be topics I have talked about but from another perspective. The debut of that "spice" is today. So, plop down on your couch, put your feet up, and peruse something extra...from another perspective.

"Hello blue-bloods, welcome to another POSH aristocratic Saturday. It’s really good to wind down after a stressful week, which I believe most of us have had. Oh my, how the week went by swiftly. Take your shoes off and kick back because we are going to relax as we talk about some serious issues.
I am of the point of view that when relating to people the way you are with one person differs with the other, this should not be used to value your relationship nor am I talking about privileges you give to those you are romantically involved with. I’m simply saying that some people are capable of smothering you with attention while others are not capable of any attention...people from different backgrounds and upbringing should not be forced to be what they are not, so it is necessary to know your friends, understand and love them as they are… Accommodation is key in all relationships and this rule must apply both in romantic relations and otherwise, it’s not about making sure your love is tit for tat, it's a about finding someone that is compatible with you or finding your own way to accommodate a person, again depending on your own nature. No relationship can be exact in terms of love given and received but if you learn to accept people, you learn that in your inequality you’d find an acceptable balance."- Anonymous

When I read this perspective, I was wow'ed by it. It's very refreshing to see something from another perspective- broadens your horizon, makes you see the world through different lenses. Of course, you don't have to agree with every other perspective but it would be great to see from one other than yours.

Remember to live your life for yourself and responsibly, enjoy the moments, your relationships, the cool breeze, the sunny day, the home cooked meal...We are not guaranteed a tomorrow, we only hope for one and pray for many. Loads of love....xoxo.